"Um... I relaxed again cuz my natural hair was taking too long to grow!"So, J and I were talking the other day about some of the e-mails we receive. They might start something like this...HELP!!!!!Then they continue...I just did the big chop and I don't know what to do! I know I can't expect long hair right away but what can I do to get it!!To which my reply isUh... first of all, you should calm